Teaching children how to respond to school violence

After being bullied and beaten at school, some junior students only know how to tolerate and compromise, and thus teach their children how to deal with school violence.

I do n’t know when it started, the violence quietly extended its dirty black hands to the original pure campus. Since most of the bullied children show tolerance and compromise, which is extremely harmful to their healthy growth, they should arouse the attention of schools, families and society, and educate children to "say no to school violence"!

Case number one:

Ms. Zhang ’s daughter, Apple, is only in the fourth grade of elementary school, but she became depressed and unhappy two years ago, and she often woke up from her sleep. It turned out that in the final exam of the second grade, Apple's score exceeded the captain in the class. From then on, the captain not only prevented other students from playing with Apple, but even instigated some poor students to beat Apple. The pens in Apple ’s stationery box are often either broken or missing ... Ms. Zhang once asked Apple ’s head teacher for this matter, but the teacher thought that these were just minor incidents among the children, and they did not produce adverse consequences, so I kept Not paying enough attention.

Case 2:

Mr. Chen's call reflected that he discovered that his son, Xiaolei, who was in grade two, had been limping recently, with blood on his legs. Xiaolei told the truth under his father's questioning: he was extorted by a senior "big brother" from the beginning. Over the past year, Xiaolei has saved every day's breakfast fee to "Big Brother". Today, "Big Brother" has graduated, but still often come back to ask Xiaolei for money. Recently, Xiao Lei was beaten by "Big Brother" because of insufficient numbers. "Big Brother" also threatened Xiaolei, and if the police were called, he would find more "buddies".

analysis:

We believe that most of the only children who are cared for at home generally have a "soft" personality. Once they encounter violence, they are immediately "terrified" and blindly covering them up, but they also encourage the arrogance of the perpetrators of violence.

Relevant persons in the youth protection department believe that teachers and parents should first recognize and recognize the objective existence of school violence, and tell children about this possible situation at the beginning of school. At the same time, we should focus on cultivating children's strong personality and instilling them with the concept of the legal system. Once the child is bullied or blackmailed by the "evil-less", parents should report to the police in a timely manner and report the case to the police if the situation is serious. If they only ask for "big things become small, little things become small", the result may harm the child.